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Respecting the Ladies
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Bearded_Viking
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Posted: Jun 15, 2026 11:32

I'd like to raise a few important points that benefit everyone in this community.


1. Respect the Ladies

These ladies work hard to provide a professional, enjoyable, and welcoming experience. Treat them with the same respect and courtesy you would expect yourself. There is never a place for abusive behavior, harassment, threats, or actions that can harm someone physically or emotionally. A little kindness and respect go a long way.

At the end of the day, most of us are here to relax, unwind, and enjoy ourselves. The goal should be for everyone to leave feeling good about the experience. Nobody wants to have a great time while leaving a lady feeling disrespected, stressed, or emotionally drained. A positive experience should go both ways.


2. Protection Matters

Protection isn't just about you—it's about the ladies, future clients, partners, and the wider community. Safe practices are there for a reason. Please don't pressure or try to negotiate around boundaries that have been put in place for everyone's wellbeing. Respecting these rules shows maturity and consideration.


3. Respect Boundaries

Every lady has her own limits and rules. These are not invitations to negotiate or challenge. If a service is not offered, accept the answer and move on respectfully. Consent and comfort should always come first.


4. Communication is Key

Be honest, polite, and clear about your expectations. Good communication prevents misunderstandings and helps create a better experience for everyone involved.

Let's work together to keep this community safe, respectful, and enjoyable for everyone. The better we treat one another, the better the experience will be for all.


"Respect costs nothing, but it means everything."

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Mendelssohns- 👑 Gold
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Posted: Jun 15, 2026 16:13

Thank you so much @BV We want to fully support and reinforce these points.


We expect everyone in our venue as well as this site to treat the ladies with respect, professionalism, and basic courtesy at all times. Any form of harassment, pressure, or disrespect will not be tolerated.

Boundaries set by the ladies are final and must be respected without question. These rules, including protection and safety guidelines, are in place to protect everyone involved and are not open to negotiation. Clear, polite communication is also essential to ensure a positive experience for all parties.

At the end of the day, this is a space built on mutual respect and that’s what keeps it safe and enjoyable for everyone.

Kisses from The Mendelssohns Team XOXO 💋

Velvet Glow 👑 Gold
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Posted: Jun 15, 2026 16:28

Thank you for taking the time to share these important points.

I fully support the message of respect, professionalism, safety, and clear communication. Creating a positive environment requires effort from everyone involved, and mutual respect is the foundation of any good experience.

The ladies deserve to be treated with courtesy and consideration at all times, just as clients should expect to be treated respectfully in return. Respecting boundaries, practicing safe behavior, and communicating openly helps ensure that everyone feels comfortable, valued, and safe.

Thank you for reminding the community that professionalism, consent, and kindness are essential. When we all play our part, we help create a welcoming and enjoyable experience for everyone.

"Respect is earned through actions, but it begins with how we treat one another."


LOVE FROM VG TEAM ❤️

DIRKHOF
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Posted: Jun 15, 2026 17:46

@Bearded_Viking while I agree with everything you say I would add that the mutual respect should go both ways, the way you as a "client" come across its sounds like you on the payroll?? Why leave the client out of your speech?

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